Posts categorized “Realizing”.

Being generative in a supporting relationship

There is a skill and art to setting up and maintaining the conditions for a generative partnership between a coach and client, and the ways that is done will be very individual. However, I propose that there are some principles at work that will be helpful to anyone finding themselves in a coaching role, including team leaders looking for more productive ways of supporting and coaching their teams. Read More »


Are you in a situation where you have something hanging over your head to do, but you can’t seem to muster your forces to do it? For instance, going to the gym regularly, or other kinds of regular self-care? Or perhaps other stuff that brings out the dreaded “should” word?

Maybe you are also giving yourself a very hard time about how you aren’t doing what you ought to, and there is some pretty negative self-talk going on about how you are “failing” or “childish”, or perhaps even “stupid”! I really want you to know something about what it takes to get things done, and how you can transform once difficult and overwhelming tasks into something do-able and even enjoyable. Read More »

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